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              Buck’s popularity, her article criticizing agency social workers, 
              sectarian institutions, and the reigning matching 
              paradigm attracted a great deal of attention, including a letter 
              of protest from Joseph Reid, the Executive Director of the Child 
              Welfare League of America. 
            Two babies came [to me] from adoption agencies, where they were 
              considered unadoptable because it was difficult to find adoptive 
              parents to “match” them. I was sure that there must 
              be good families, matching or not, who could love these babies and 
              indeed there were. . . . 
             Yet I continue acutely and constantly aware of the thousands of 
              children waiting. . . . These are the citizens of 
              my new world, the children without parents and the parents without 
              children, pressing eagerly toward each other, and yet unable to 
              reach each other. A barrier stands between, a high wall, and in 
              the middle of the wall is a narrow gate, kept locked until a social 
              agency unlocks it a little way and lets one child through at a time. . . . 
            Nobody knows truthfully how many children are in our orphanages. 
              There are many kinds of orphanages but the largest number belong 
              to religious groups. It was once necessary, I do not doubt, for 
              religious orders to care for orphans, but certainly that day is 
              past. Parents are waiting to adopt them. True, it would be very 
              difficult to close these orphanages, not because of the children 
              but because of vested interests. . . . 
            The rights of natural parents over children must be defined. Children 
              are not property, but they are considered so under our laws. . . . 
              There is no magic in blood relationship when parents alienate their 
              children by neglect or desertion. Yet under our laws and our customs 
              blood still takes precedence, blood instead of the reality of love. . . . 
              The human qualities of love and understanding and acceptance alone 
              should decide the fate of a child rather than race and religion. 
            Where all else is equal, of course similarity in race and religion 
              is good but human destiny should not be based on these two elements. . . . 
              I venture to say, were the dead hands of neglectful relatives removed, 
              were the divisive and possessive jealousies of religious groups 
              replaced by the spirit of true religion. . .that nearly 
              all children, at least up to the age of 12, would be easily adoptable. 
              No, when I think of teen-age boys and girls I see children still 
              hungry for home and parents and I withdraw the age limitation. 
            And how. . .could we ever get so many children adopted 
              when our social agencies cannot cope with what we have? I submit 
              a controversial answer. It could be done if the red tape of adoption 
              procedures were eliminated and only essentials kept. There are, 
              I am sure, sincere and unselfish social workers and religious persons 
              in the field of child welfare and adoption who honestly believe 
              that they are doing the best that can be done, unaware that they 
              themselves are the hindrances because they are faithful to red tape 
              and encrusted in tradition. . . . 
            There is a surplus of children but the parents who are waiting 
              are prevented from adopting them. . . . Let no small 
              arguments be raised here. It is idle to retort, for example, that 
              adoptive parents usually want a perfect child, that most children 
              are not perfect, and so on. They can be helped to want a handicapped 
              children, a child of mixed origin, or any child at all. . . . 
              We can tear down the walls that keep them prisoners of red tape, 
              prejudice and religious division. . . . We can refuse 
              to accept the excuse that there are not enough children to satisfy 
              adoptive parents. 
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