This excerpt,
which describes one leading agency’s thinking about infertility
in the early 1940s, reveals several things. First, limiting adoption
to infertile couples was closely connected to a shortage of the
children in greatest demand: healthy, white infants. Second, professionals
thought differently about different kinds of infertility. They contrasted
childlessness due to “organic” causes with childlessness
that was inexplicable, sometimes called “psychogenic,”
and therefore suspicious. Third, the agency concluded that couples
who cooperated fully with requirements that their infertility be
medically verified were more likely to suffer from “organic”
infertility than couples who did not. This turned compliance with
agency rules into a barometer of emotional adjustment and good parenting
potential that was as important, in its own way, as infertility
itself.
Through the month Mrs. Brenner had been interpreting to new applicants
that there were few babies to place in proportion to the number
of families who were interested in adopting children and that we
were therefore requiring medical procedure to determine whether
or not families might be able to have children of their own. We
were explaining to families that we were not in a position to place
a baby in a home where the family might be able to have its own
child. . . .
We then went on to a consideration of those situations in which
applications had been withheld pending our handling of getting medical
information. The first group to be considered was the thirteen families
who did not get in touch with us after the interview to give us
permission to go ahead in contacting their doctors. In the first
of these situations, the husband was in the Army. The family had
been married for three or four years and had been given assurance
by their obstetrician that they could have their own child. In the
second of these situations the family seemed to have the feeling
that it would be possible for them to have their own child. In the
third case, a woman had come in to apply and a very close friend
of hers had been applying to the agency at the same time. Both this
applicant and her friend had displayed a peculiar feeling of pressure
that something must be done for them in particular. . . .
We then went on to discuss the ten situations in which applications
had been withheld pending medical routines and in which the families
had been in touch with us so that we had procured medical information
from their doctors. In the first of these situations the woman had
had a series of miscarriages and the doctor indicated that there
was a glandular condition and that he advised the family again[st]
attempting to have a child. The next situation was one in which
the family had originally written for an appointment on 10/28/42
and had not kept that appointment. They had come in again after
arranging an appointment in December. In the interim period they
had been able to get a baby privately. The baby had turned out to
be a congenitally sick child who had to be returned to its parents.
In the third of these situations, the prospective adoptive mother
had never menstruated. The next family had presented a situation
in which the couple had lost their own baby five years ago when
he was seven months old. . . .
Our discussion of these two groupings, that is the families who
had communicated with us to give us permission to get in touch with
their doctors and those families who had not been in touch with
us following the intake interview appointment for this purpose resulted
in the following thinking: Dr. Bernard pointed out that there were
certain common denominators in each group. It did seem that those
families who had gone through with our procedure around procuring
medical information presented situations in which there did seem
to be more definite organic basis. In addition to this it seemed
that they did have doctors who had pretty much let them know that
they were not able to have children and had committed themselves
to approving adoption for these families. They had had definite
dramatic things happen to them, such as a number of abortions or
the woman had not menstruated. The additional factor was that the
doctor was an ally in these situations. They knew that their doctors
would help them in their plan to adopt a child. Their inability
to have a child was something which had already been emotionally
accepted by them.
In the second group, that is those families who had not been in
touch with us following the intake interview it did seem that their
reasons for wanting to adopt a child were somewhat vaguer. In many
of these situations the families seemed almost afraid of getting
a definite answer from their doctors and did not know whether or
not in approaching their doctors about adoption they would find
him to be an enemy or an ally. The question developing out of this
was whether this second group of families were people whose homes
we would not want to use on the basis that they could not work this
through for themselves. It was Mrs. Brenner’s thinking that
there were certain evidences of maladjustments in those families
who did not get in touch with us to signify their interest in our
going through with the medical routine.
We all agreed that some sifting process had been necessary in view
of the large numbers of applications and our inability to use a
good proportion of these homes and we discussed at this point whether
this particular procedure seemed to be the most desirable one.
In thinking through the desirability of this procedure it did seem
that it offered an advantage in that those people who went through
with the medical procedure by and large had more organic basis for
their inability to have a child and were therefore less likely to
be emotionally maladjusted. They would be more maternal and could
transfer their feeling to an adoptive child more easily. . . . |