|   Ten years, or 
              even five years ago, there was no such person as the preschool child. 
              Ten years ago we were just beginning to discover ordinary children 
              and their importance for social life and progress. . . . 
            In social work, my own ten years of experience have seen a revolution. 
              Ten years ago mental hygiene and psychiatric social work were just 
              beginning with adults. Family case work dealt with parents as individuals 
              and with the children as a group. You can read through the earlier 
              records of the family agencies without finding any recognition of 
              children as persons. They are apt to be differentiated only by name, 
              age and sex, except for some special problem of health, education 
              or delinquency. 
            In the field of child placing, although we have to deal with individual 
              children whom we take from a broken home to place in a foster family, 
              we are only just learning to recognize the obligation to individualize 
              every child. Well do I remember when we used to comfort ourselves 
              with the thought that a baby needed only good physical care, that 
              unwholesome surroundings had less effect on a younger than on an 
              older child. It was only two years ago that the child-placing agency 
              with which I am associated determined to make a study of each infant 
              before placing for adoption. Any good healthy attracteive baby used 
              to be considered a good adoption risk. Now we know that babies as 
              well as older children may be rated as to native ability and we 
              give psychological tests to every child received by us, no matter 
              what his age. These tests are very tentative as yet, but when combined 
              with careful physical examinations and social histories and safeguarded 
              by retests at proper intervals, they offer at least one valuable 
              tool for beginning to treat babies as persons. 
            In concentrating upon the young child, therefore, we are not ignoring 
              later developments but are on the contrary for the first time recognizing 
              their origin and trying in a rational and scientific fashion to 
              seek control at the source. Both psychiatrist and psychologist are 
              demonstrating that the personality trends in children which later 
              make problems for educators and social workers as well as parents 
              have a history which can be traced. Modern psychology is pretty 
              well agreed that the reform of an individual is not accomplished 
              by will power, force, punishment or fear. Bad as well as good behavior 
              is not something which is established over night. It is a product 
              of years, the outgrowth of a particular experience. To change it 
              is a scientific rather than a moral problem. . . . 
            No one would blame a child of ten for lack of physical health produced 
              in the course of living under the care of his parents but would 
              explain his condition in terms not only of his inheritance but of 
              the health habits of his family, his feeding, exercise, rest, play, 
              clothing, etc. Yet we do tend to treat as a moral issue deserving 
              of praise or blame, the good or bad behavior of children as if they 
              were in some way responsible or could control the conditions under 
              which their ways of reacting to life have been formed. 
            If we are to be intelligent about social as well as physical problems 
              we have to abandon our emotional reactions to the things children 
              do in our homes, our streets and our school rooms and use the best 
              minds we have in trying to find out why and how behavior is built 
              up. If our interest lies in assigning responsibility, praise, blame 
              or punishment for any particular bit of conduct, we shall never 
              be able to take toward that behavior the scientific attitude which 
              treats it as a problem to be controlled only by complete understanding. . . . 
            The fundamental need for all human beings is a sense of at-homeness 
              in one’s environment, a feeling of being adequate to life 
              as one finds it. This sounds simple, but it depends upon a good 
              many factors which are in their ramifications infinitely complex. 
              This feeling of security and adequacy in life depends upon at least 
              three things in childhood: a stable background, ability to win approval 
              from others, and power to do, to carry out successfully some of 
              the activities which are characteristic of other children of the 
              same age. A little later in the child’s development we can 
              see that there must be included as part of his sense of security 
              a positive fearless attitude towards sex and a belief that he will 
              be able to achieve sex happiness, to find a satisfactory love object 
              outside of his own family. 
            How does a child get his sense of stability, of firm ground under 
              his feet? Where else but through his parents and the family circle? 
              We who work with dependent children understand only too well the 
              shock to confidence which comes with the discovery that one’s 
              own home is not necessarily a safe refuge, a permanent foundation. 
              The child who is moved from place to place is a prey to undercurrents 
              of fear and insecurity, which inevitably find expression in blind 
              attempts to compensate. Such attempts since they are unconscious 
              are seldom well chosen or socially acceptable. . . . 
            The facts which psychiatry and psychology are discovering about 
              the importance of parents and family life to the mental health of 
              the next generation, far from relieving the schools of responsibility, 
              only increase their obligation and enlarge infinitely the vision 
              of what it means to educate a child. 
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