|   Personal and Racial Selection. 
              It is also desirable in fitting children to applications, to select 
              such as resemble one or both of the foster parents, or at least 
              not specially different from them in appearance. A strong contrast 
              between parents and children causes endless remarks and calls for 
              continued explanations, which are often irritating and sometimes 
              embarrassing to the foster parents, and frequently a source of trouble 
              to the children. This is especially to be considered when infants 
              or very small children are taken with a view to subsequent adoption. 
            The laws of most states properly require that so far as is practicable 
              placements of children be made in families of the same religious 
              faith as that held by the children or their parents. It is also 
              worth while to avoid mixing too diverse types or nationalities, 
              as, for instance, the very swarthy with the decidedly blond. There 
              need be no question of superiority or inferiority raised in a rule 
              to limit placements generally to similar personal, racial, or national 
              types, or to approximations of them in their American descendants. 
              No good can come from, and much harm may be done by, wilful violations 
              of customs and comity in the placement of children, even when the 
              child welfare worker in so doing violates neither state laws nor 
              his own conscience. 
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