No. 1: Joe – 3 years
old.
Joe is a Mexican and Indian boy who is very attractive and alert
appearing, but tests indicate an I.Q. of about 80. Joe is dark in
coloring and has a mop of unruly straight, thick, black hair, which
his foster mother finds very difficult to manage. At the present
time Joe is in a White foster home in a rural area and spends most
of his time tagging the foster father around as he takes care of
the farm. Joe was removed from his home when he was an infant of
about six months, and although he has other brothers and sisters
he has always been separated from them and so does not know them.
He has not seen his father nor his mother since he was removed,
but until a year ago, he was not legally free and therefore could
not be referred for adoptive placement. However, when he was freed
he was referred immediately, but as yet no home has been found for
him. So far as he knows he belongs in his present foster home. Joe
is a very outgoing boy with sparkling black eyes and an engaging
grin, most of the time. He has a hot temper however, and a stubborn
streak shows itself when he does not get his way. There are older
children of the foster parents in the home and Joe is their pride
and joy.
No. 2: Mike – Mexican and Indian – 7 years old.
Mike is Joe’s half-brother, having the same mother but another
father. Mike is a rather withdrawn, anxious boy who has been in
a foster home since he was about 4-1/2 years old. At this time he
has been in his present home for about 8 months, but had three foster
home placements before that. Mike does exceedingly well in school,
is in the second grade and on a psychological test his I.Q. was
120. About a year ago Mike was made legally free and was immediately
referred for adoptive placement, but as yet no home has been found
for him. He is a tall wiry boy with very black hair and very dark
eyes. His eyes are quite expressive and the foster mother says that
he is very difficult to discipline because if you look at his eyes
you “just melt.” Mike does not have to be disciplined
very often, in fact not often enough perhaps. He is quite interested
in reading and in music and most particularly in fishing. His coordination
has always been excellent and his foster parents think he could
be a good athlete, but he does not seem to be interested in athletics
at this point. The teacher, of course, is very fond of Mike because
he does well in school and causes no trouble. Mike has begun to
ask why his parents do not come to see him anymore and is aware
that he has a different status in his foster family than the own
children of the foster parents. Mike remembers life with his mother
and with a rapid succession of fathers. For awhile after he was
placed, his mother visited every few months, but within the past
2 years he has not seen her. He has never known his father and has
had some difficulty in understanding why in a foster home the fathers
come home every night, they don’t come home drunk and the
same father comes home consistently. At this point Mike is rather
unsure about trusting adults and is seeking a permanent and secure
relationship. However, the worker is hesitant to talk very much
with him about adoption since finding an adoptive home for Mike
will be a long process. His chief disadvantages are his color and
his age.
No. 3: Regina – Negro and Indian – 6 years old
Regina has a very dark brown skin and looks quite Indian with
straight thick coarse black hair and black eyes that can change
from being very somber to being very sparkling in a very short time.
Regina is of average intelligence and in starting school has seemed
to make an adequate adjustment. She has been in the same foster
home for the past four years and is the ideal of her foster father.
The foster parents are in the 70’s and so it is obvious that
Regina cannot stay there much longer even though they would very
much like to keep her. She lives in a very small town, but there
are several Indian children in the school. Regina has been legally
free for 2 years, but for a time she was not placed because she
tested too low according to the worker. It seems that when Regina
was about 3 years old she came in for a psychological examination
and sat glumly through the whole process, participating very little.
She made almost no response to the tester and sat the whole time
“looking holes through her.” When Regina was about 4-1/2
or 5 the case was transferred to another worker who, after observing
Regina, was positive she was not dull. She began to see more of
Regina to get acquainted with her and finally after awhile brought
her in for another psychological test. At that point Regina seemed
like a different child, responding very well and testing well within
the average range. Two sets of adoptive parents have seen Regina,
but she has been too dark for them. Regina has a faculty for controlling
things by remaining silent and just sitting staring at whoever is
attempting to talk with her. At one point she had to be moved from
her present foster home for a brief period because the foster mother
became ill and went to the hospital. Throughout the whole 2 weeks
Regina was in a strange place, and talked very little, played very
little and just seemed to be suspended in space until she could
return to her foster home. It was most frustrating to the foster
family and they became quite upset by her. Of course, the more upset
they got the more silent she was. As soon as she returned to her
first foster home she became her old self again and proved that
she could be responsive, alert and full of fun.
No. 4: Marie – Eskimo and Indian – 4 years old.
Marie has been legally free since birth, but for some time was
held without referring to an adoption agency because she had a cleft
lip and cleft palate, which needed repair. At this point the repair
has been completed and she needs speech training at this point.
There may be some orthodontics at a later time, but just now her
greatest need is for a permanent home and one where she can get
speech training. Marie is a short, squarely built, round faced little
girl who looks rather Oriental in appearance is except for her brown
skin. Her mother was an unmarried mother from Alaska who came to
the States after she got pregnant. She relinquished the child at
birth and was not heard from after that. She was not too sure about
the father, but was sure of only the one thing that he was an Indian
from the West Coast someplace. The worker is convinced that Marie
could be a much more attractive child than she is if she were dressed
differently and if the foster mother would take better care of her
hair. However, at this point she usually looks like a little waif
with dresses much too long for her and her hair cut in a very square
dutch bob. The repair of her cleft lip has been done so well that
one hardly notices the scar. Marie seems to function on an average
level for a 4 year old except for her speech, but since she is in
a foster home where she does not get stimulation, the worker is
not convinced that Marie is functioning up to capacity.
No. 5: Felix – Indian and White – 11 years old.
Felix is a handsome bright boy who looks like the pictures of
Indian braves one sees on postcards. He has a beautiful body, is
very good in sports, and does well at school. He is quite an outgoing
gregarious boy and is very much the leader in the small school that
he attends. Felix looks more White than Indian, except for his very
thick coarse black hair, and since he is in a community where there
are a great many Indians he has not appeared to think much about
his mixed racial background. Felix has had rather a checkered background
and was one of several children, but since he was the youngest he
has been pretty much completely separated from the rest of his family
for the past several years. He sees his older brothers once in awhile
since they live in that vicinity, but there seems to be no strong
relationship between them. Felix was in foster care off and on from
the time he was about a year old. He would spend some time in foster
homes where he was placed because of neglect by his mother and father
and then would return to his parents when the agency thought they
were rehabilitated enough to take care of their family. Actually,
most of the care Felix received was from his brothers who were from
3 to 7 years older than he. His father was White and was a logger
who had to give up his occupation of logging and was never able
to find a job that lasted very long and that would support the family.
Most of the time while the father was gone in the woods the mother
would entertain various and sundry men in her home. When the father
came back the situation would improve, but it would last only as
long as he was there. Finally, after being unsuccessful at attempting
to find employment other than logging he returned to his former
occupation against the advice of a doctor, and after a few weeks
was killed in the woods when a tree fell on him. At this point the
mother seemed to give up completely, came into the Welfare Department
and asked them to place all of the children. . . .
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