Self and Others
Psychology 410
Prof. Bertram Malle
Winter 1999


Connecting Self with Other
Rapport and Empathy (Jan 21)

1. Physiological rapport and linkage

(LEVENSON & RUEF)

  • menstrual synchrony
  • emoptional reliving of own experience
  • heart rate and skin conductance correlations
  • facial mimicry
  • postural mirroring

Mechanisms?

  • shared stimuli (environment, conversation)
  • A's emotion -> A's face -> B's face -> B's emotion

2. Empathy

= attempts to comprehend other's mind state
  • cognitive (= figuring out what the other is seeing, thinking, or feeling): perspective-taking
    If compared to real state of other -> assessment of empathic accuracy

  • emotional (= feeling the same thing as the other person)
Central precursors: Imitation, joint attention, concept of mind.

ROGERS: Rapport and empathy in clinical practice (non-judgmental, reflecting client's interpretation, helping with finding meanings)

Methods of inducing empathy:

  • direct: imagine what the other is experiencing
  • situation-based: imagine their situation and how you would experience it
  • self-based: remember a time during which you felt the same way (exploiting the ego)

Some findings:

  • accuracy is not correlated with self-reported empathy or self-guessed accuracy
  • mutual induction of same emotion happens more often for negative affect (escalation)
  • conflict resolution (and forgiveness) is more successful with "self-based" empathy
KLEIN & HODGES (1999): Empathic accuracy, gender differences, motivational processes

Mechanisms of successful empathy?

  • simulation (total projection)
  • inference processes (active perspective taking)
  • emotional contagion and read-off (LEVENSON & RUEF)

3. Sympathy

(= feelings of tenderness in face of other's suffering; compassion, not mimicry)
  • antecedents (sufferer, similarity or relationship, similarity of plight: HOUSTON)
  • consequences (altruism, charitableness, forgiveness/less blame)